Well, I say dress like a turkey (but avoid the cornbread stuffing bit...that could be bad)!!!

Okay, okay, maybe not <lol>.

Mine doesn't get into it the lingerie thing much, either, but I'd definintely pack something that makes YOU feel special and beautiful, for "the" night, if nothing else. If you end up not wearing it, that's fine, but if you do show up in the doorway of that hotel bathroom all dressed up like an anniversary gift, how can he help but feel lucky, right <g>?

What a great way to spend turkey day...in Hawaii with your love. Have a MARVELOUS time!!!

I remember reading somewhere that med tend to be more turned on by nudity than slinky stuff, but I can't vouch for the validity of the source since I don't remember what it was.

That said, I've had the best reaction to wearing a wife beater and sexy undies in the shower. Sorry if that's TMI.