If you both work, then I'd be more of a stickler about fair distribution of labor at home, too. Maybe you can sit down and write out all of the things that need doing ON PAPER, so you and he can see just how much more you are doing at this time. Then, ask him which things he *would* be willing to do to make it a fairer distribution, or would he be willing to hire someone in part time, if that's an option for you two. I mean, he can't look at this stuff in writing and say "it's okay for you to to a lot more", right? Not without getting kicked, anyhow <lol>.

Maybe if you two have a day off together, you could just work-party all of those chores first thing on Saturday Morning, together, and then you're finished, together. I do that, for big things that I can't or won't do alone...like, say, clearing the rain gutters, or some such. We do it together, and it's done quickly, and everyone feels better about it.

I'm only saying to let it go if that is a comfortable option for you!! If you know that you'll harbour any tiny resentment inside, you need to get this on the table and discussed. Those tiny, ignored bits of resentment are a cancer to a happy marriage. They have to be exposed and dealt with. So, please, don't just suck it up...not until you feel like you've done all that you can to make sure that you and he are *both* happy with the compromise you've settled upon.

Sorry...more than my .02. Shushing now : ).