Hello all

topic posted Sat, January 13, 2007 - 8:27 AM by 
Not many posts for the New Year, so I'll start..... I'm not the best domestic type but we've worked things out to be fairly equal. I made breakfast this morning, only because he asked. He made dinner last night. I'm doing a load of laundry only because I need a pair of jeans to wear today.

We are happy! We have fun, we get one day off a week together and we try to do atleast one thing for each other like go for a walk on the beach. Even if its only for a little while. Its good...

Now how about you? There are a lot of people in this tribe but no posts??

Just say one thing nice about your partner ok?
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  • Re: Hello all

    Sat, January 13, 2007 - 6:00 PM
    Well, he does the floors and I do the dishes, he cookes the meats and I the veggies, I sort and load the washer and he loads the dryer then folds, and he does the watering while I plant and harvest.

    We too are happy and having fun.
  • Re: Hello all

    Sun, January 14, 2007 - 10:11 AM
    Just one nice thing? Not possible. There's too many.

    I have the bestest partner in the whole wide world!
    • Re: Hello all

      Sun, January 14, 2007 - 1:24 PM
      We might have to debate that ;-)
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        Sun, January 14, 2007 - 6:50 PM
        Debate? Hmmm, mine makes me coffee at night for the morning and he doesn't drink coffee. Its usually done after I go to bed and he is shutting out the lights and locking up the doors.
        • Re: Hello all

          Mon, January 15, 2007 - 6:58 PM
          I get tea and toast, in bed, he drinks mate.
          • Re: Hello all

            Mon, January 15, 2007 - 7:04 PM
            ok toast is a point!


            I get the garbage taken out and dumped, we don't have garbage service so I just put the bags in front of the door and he takes them away...
            • Re: Hello all

              Mon, January 15, 2007 - 8:19 PM
              I have a bad back, I never lift anything more than 5 lbs. Hence I wash dry laundry and he dries the wet stuff.
              • Re: Hello all

                Tue, January 16, 2007 - 8:24 AM
                Sorry about your back, that must be hard to deal with on a daily basis...

                Mine kills the bugs in the house for me,,, I can get him out of bed to scoop them out of the bathtub
                • Re: Hello all

                  Wed, January 17, 2007 - 5:50 AM
                  Yeah, it's not fun.
                  At first, when I was really bummed, he dug a garden for me in the winter and I planted some seeds so that in the spring I would have something to look forward to, it was the best thing, I used to get out of bed just to see what had sprouted and each day he'd expect a report.
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                    Re: Hello all

                    Thu, January 18, 2007 - 9:47 AM
                    awww, that is very sweet, you'll need to do that again and now I hope you'll be able to participate more...

                    Karl, thats a good one I'm not sure for us, sometimes I'm shocked at his reaction to something. Just when I think I knew him perfectly, he'll change his mind on something..
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    Re: Hello all

    Thu, February 1, 2007 - 11:00 AM
    Hmm, we trade off. I'll do the dishes and he'll cook for a week, then he'll do the dishes and I cook. Other chores get done as needed by whomever is least lazy. :-)

    One nice thing?

    He sets at night, then wakes up and turns off, my alarm every morning so I can roll over and take my temp (FAM) even though he doesn't have to get up for another hour.
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      Thu, February 1, 2007 - 11:56 AM
      Eva that is very nice of him. I should try the trade off thing, I may like that! I do dishes faster but I like cooking and making the mess more : )

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